Added the option to skip setting library SONAMEs

[pvallet]

I am adding this option locally as I ended up needing it to circumvent this problem I encountered, so I figured I might as well create a PR:
https://stackoverflow.com/questions/77733250/using-patchelf-to-change-the-soname-of-libgldispatch-so-breaks-its-functionality

While not the common flow, it does seem that being able to skip setting the SONAMEs and only relying on file names can have its uses in some cases.

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[pvallet]

Hello! Is there any way I could help push this forward? Should I create some tests for the new option? I hadn’t made them as the option I was taking inspiration from (no update tags) didn’t have any, but I could definitely add some

[mayeut]

I'm not almost sure that we don't want to see this happening.
Copying without renaming/changing the SONAME is likely to break things in different environments.
While libOpenGL.so can't be whitelisted, I think it falls in the category where it can be excluded from being grafted altogether: #368

cc @lkollar for another opinion on the matter.

[HinTak]

FWIW, think this pull is likely barking up the wrong tree - the explanation is probably along pypa/cibuildwheel#2118 - libGLdispatch is used between libA and libA_vendor, where libA is one of GL family of libraries. You need to load them from system locations to find the hidden libA_vendor.

[mayeut]

The 2 last comments point to using --exclude.